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Sunday, November 16, 2008

Relationship???

What relationship means?? I would say its like a football game but of course a relationship will never be said to be a game laa... Although its just a few letter word, but it includes a very complex feelings of we human and a lot of work to be done. In football, all the player must work in a team to carry out a good game, they have to practise hard and get around with each other a lot so that they will have the same insticnt when they are playing. Its eaasy to say but it is real hard to do!!

In a football game, there are 1st half and 2nd half of game, during this game, not all the player can stay be by your side, some got injured and have to get out of the feild, some just break the rules and got grounded. There is also time where the team is getting a new player so they will have a choosing session, which player is suitable will be chosen.

Then how does a relationship gets related to a football game??

We have our beloved parents with us (just like the players), maybe not by our side all the time but there are always there. As we know, nobody lives forever, our parents getting older and older, of course we want them to stay with us as long as possible in "the game" laa right. But sometimes the result just doesn't come out as what we want and expected. They will, eventually, leave us in the 1st half and during the 2nd half, we might be alone.

What should we do for the 2nd half then?? Before we loose our parents, our most precious "player", we will kind of have a "choosing session" to get a partner (instead of player in football). Getting a gf/bf is the choosing period, u try to get along with that person to see whether he/she suits you or not, if does, then continue with the "contract", if doesn't, unfortunately, no more "contract", but the special thing in relationship is that we can change the rules of our own to suit that partner, unlike football.

So, to me, having a gf is to find a partner for company for the 2nd half and at the same time the love that was given to parents will be on her too, maybe more. A partner is the who will accompany for the 2nd half of the game (life), I am sure nobody wants to loose a "player" in an important "match" right. I am not deparate but I just felt that I want to put my lilttle secret in this blog, that's all. I am not desparate!! haha...

4 comments:

GWP said...

What a good philosophy about love... Anything that happens around us can be related to love... I once relate it to mathematics... If u know what is a function, then I'd like to tell u that love is an one-to-one function. Wish that u'll find ur dream girl soon ^_^

ChenChen said...

I think i knw wat is a function but i duno wat is a one-to-one function wor,, hehe.. if u dun mind to tel me.. :)

dream grl huh, to me, i dun reali think thr wil b a dream grl 4me, i nvr dream of any grl anyway.. haha.. aiya, enjoy ur holiday ya.. haha.. :*

GWP said...

Function is the most basic thing in calculus. For an equation to be a function, it must has 3 things:
1. a domain
2. a codomain
3. a rule that assign every element in the domain an unique image in the codomain.

A function is one-to-one when every element in the domain has one image, and every element in the codomain is assigned to only one object.

Haha... Dunno whether u get me. In short, in a relationship, a guy has only one gf and a gal has only one bf.

ChenChen said...

Haha, too technical, sory.. hehe.. calculus huh, i m nt a mathematicain laa.. haha.. in f relationship of course n its a must for a person to only hv a partner laa.. hw can it b 2 wor?? hehe... :) if one person has 2 partner means cheating d lo.. in a relationship, both must b loyal... :)